Episode 6

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Published on:

8th Jan 2026

Ep 6 - Is Patience Helping You Succeed — or Quietly Holding You Back?

with Alec Pearson, Nick Sellers and Tiffany Barnard.

In this episode, we explore why patience — something we’re taught to value — can sometimes get in the way of progress. We look at the moments where waiting becomes hesitation, where caution becomes procrastination, and where leaders unintentionally stall their own momentum.

In this conversation, we explore:

  1. The fine line between patience and procrastination — and why they’re not the same thing.
  2. How fear, perfectionism and lack of confidence shape timing in ways we don’t always recognise.
  3. Why leaders often wait for the “perfect moment” — and why that moment rarely arrives.
  4. When patience fuels sustainable progress and when it becomes a subtle form of avoidance.
  5. How passion, purpose and process influence our ability to act with clarity and conviction.
  6. Simple practices to judge timing more effectively so you don’t miss out on opportunities that matter.

If you’ve ever found yourself waiting… and not quite sure why, this conversation will help you see patience in a new light — not as a fixed virtue, but as something we need to use deliberately, not automatically.

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Beyond Leading
Beyond Leading explores leadership as it really happens. Across self, teams, organisations and the boardroom. Decisions, pressures and situations that rarely fit neatly into a framework. Hosted by Executive Coach & Non-Executive Director Alec Pearson.
Leadership is never only about the leader.


Beyond Leading is for people who want to understand what is really going on when leadership gets complicated — when teams get stuck, decisions aren't clear, businesses change, relationships become difficult or the usual leadership advice simply isn't enough.


Hosted by executive coach and Non-Executive Director Alec Pearson, the podcast explores the whole leadership system — from self-awareness, confidence and behaviour, through trust, conflict and team dynamics, to decision-making, accountability, organisational performance, executive leadership and the boardroom.


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Alec Pearson

I'm Alec Pearson, Non-Executive Director, Board Advisor and Executive Coach, with more than 30 years' experience across professional services, law, technology, manufacturing, transport and founder-led SMEs.

I've spent much of my career working in and around leadership, leading teams, advising businesses, coaching senior leaders and working with boards on the decisions, relationships and challenges that shape organisations.

Today, I work with boards, executives and business leaders when the stakes are higher, the answers are less obvious and clarity matters. My approach combines independent board-level thinking with a coaching lens: pragmatic, people-aware, challenging when needed, and grounded in the realities of leadership and business.

Beyond Leading grew out of that experience.

It's the podcast I wish had existed earlier in my career. One that looks beyond leadership theory and explores what is really happening across the whole leadership system: ourselves, the people around us, our teams, our organisations and the boardroom.

Some episodes are reflections on the patterns I see in leadership and business. Others bring together leaders, business owners, coaches and specialists with experience and perspectives worth exploring.

The aim is not to offer another neat leadership formula. It's to ask better questions, challenge assumptions and make sense of the situations that rarely fit neatly into a framework.

That's what Beyond Leading is about — leadership as it really happens, and everything in between.