Episode 14

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9th Apr 2026

Ep 14 - EQ Beyond The Buzzword: It Starts With You

with Alec Pearson, Tiffany David and Graham Da Costa.

Emotional intelligence. Two words that have been talked about, trained, workshopped and plastered on LinkedIn until they mean almost nothing.

So why are we talking about it?

Because most of what you've heard about EQ only scratches the surface.

It isn't a personality type. And it definitely isn't something you either have or you don't.

In this episode of Beyond Leading, we get underneath it, the real, unfiltered version of emotional intelligence that shows up in how you lead, how you connect, and how you read the room when it actually matters.

We explore:

why 85% of us are less self-aware than we think we are — and what that's costing us
how your triggers, your energy and your values are shaping every relationship you have, whether you know it or not
why face-to-face connection does something Zoom never will
the assumptions quietly destroying your team relationships
and whether the next generation of leaders are arriving in the workplace with an EQ gap nobody is talking about

This isn't another definition of emotional intelligence.

It's a challenge to how you think about it.

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Beyond Leading

Exploring the reality of leaders, teams and everything in between.

Welcome to Beyond Leading — the podcast that cuts through the noise to get real about leadership, team dynamics, personal growth, and the messy, brilliant reality of work, life, and everything in between.

We’re your hosts, Alec Pearson, Tiffany Barnard and Nick Sellers — practitioners who’ve led teams, navigated pressure, and now coach leaders at every level. We’re here for honest conversations about what it really takes to lead well in today’s world.

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You’ll hear personal reflections, plenty of laughs, some sharp truths, and inspiring guests who’ve lived it, led through it, and grown because of it.

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About your hosts

Alec Pearson

I’m Alec Pearson, a Non-Executive Director, Board Advisor and Executive Coach with over 30 years’ experience working across sectors including professional services, law, technology, manufacturing, transport and founder-led businesses. I work with boards and senior leaders when decisions feel heavier than they used to, complexity is rising, and clarity really matters. My perspective blends independent board-level challenge with a coaching lens — pragmatic, people-aware, and focused on helping leaders think clearly and lead well through growth, change and uncertainty.

Tiffany Barnard

I spent over 25 years leading teams and running a business in Tanzania, and those experiences shaped how I see leadership today. Now, I coach leaders around the world to communicate with impact, build trust, and lead in a way that feels true to them. The best part of my work is watching that moment when they realise what’s possible — and step into it. You can find me on LinkedIn if you’d like to connect.

Nick Sellers

Even leaders need a helping hand to achieve their potential. I bring decades of corporate experience and a keen interest in people to my coaching and mentoring activities. And I really like to help those who want to grow and develop.
For more information, you can find me on LinkedIn and schedule a quick call.